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Rhidale Dotson posted a condolence
Saturday, October 5, 2013
It's like an unfinished song; knowing that, auh, somebody that you love so much is no longer around and no longer able to talk to you; or hug you; or give you those words of encouragement anymore; it's like I said, it's like an unfinished song… it doesn't feel right. I know I'm not speaking to my grandmother; I didn't want to really speak to the family. I just wanted to say something to honor the legacy of my grandmother, Geneva Sutton and I'm going to miss her.
The reason I'm behind the keyboard is because, this is where I feel safe, this is where I get out all my emotions, where I get my inspirations and pour all that into my music. I knew my grandmother appreciated the music that I made and it's not that she was proud of my accomplishments, but that I was utilizing what God had given me and what God has blessed me with. So I feel it would be appropriate to be in my element and address this whole situation with merit.
For the last couple of days I've been thinking about what all this means; questioning myself; trying to find answers to help me get through and possibly help the rest of you get through and deal with this in your own way.
One of the main questions that I asked myself was: why am I so sad? After thinking about it, I realized that there are two reasons why a person would be sad when they loose someone. One is because that you are upset about the fact that that person is no longer there to give you what they always gave.
The other is that you are not able to give to that person in the way that you always gave to them. Which one is the reason why I'm so sad? Is it that I will be missing what I have been receiving from her for so long because that's no longer available; or is it because I can no longer share with her in the way that I use to? It's always going to be a mixture of both 'cause Grandma gave so much. One of the main things she gave was love in a way that was unconditional.
We know that she prayed every day and you all knew that there was someone, everyday, who was going to mention your name to the Lord. When she cooked on Sundays it was never a question about what did we bring to the table. When we went to her home we went assuming that anything that was there was ours. So yea, I miss what I use to receive from Grandma; the hugs, the encouragement; the fact that she was there when she did not have to be.
I thought that I would not have any regrets because I did express to Grandma how I felt. I knew that she knew that I loved her and she knew that I knew that she love me. But on some levels I do still have my regrets. I regret not being able to show her that reward of her concern and her care. She was there—she was there while I was going through these trials; she was there at the visiting rooms; she was there in the court room; even before all my mistakes, she was there to teach; she was there to discipline; to educate. My regrets come from the fact that I did not appreciate her in the way that I should have.
Every person and individual has there own identity and with that comes their values and rules. Did I honor her values and break her rules? In the instances where I did break those rules and dishonor those values, I regret it. I understand that she was more than her body or name and who she was and is continues to live on. We know who she was; she was a child of
God, so we know where she is and that's in heaven. Because of that, I can still honor her legacy. I have an opportunity to recognize the parts of her that are in me and be what she expected me to be. I choose to give rather than receive now.
When I think about her legacy, I think about what she left. She may not have left a lot of money or possessions, but she left the world richer by giving it 'us' and our abilities and our talents and our gifts and our potential. She invested those rules and values in us. We know who she was and we know who we are. The question is; are we going to live up to what we should be? Honor her by being the best that you possibly can be. You do not have to live life full of regrets—missing her and loosing out because she is no longer there to provide. What we have is an opportunity to provide for others. She invested in the world through us, so now we have the opportunity to use our gifts, our talents, our abilities, our wealth, to make the world better first in our own lives, then through our families, in our communities, and a significant difference to the world; not in a way that is superficial, but something that contributes values for a long, long time and is sustainable.
Trying to remember my grandmother is something that I've grown accustomed to because unfortunately I've been missing her for a while. It's been 14 years since I've been home. But I know that she expected me to be there. Though I may not come home to her chicken; her kool-aid; her ribs; her hugs; her words; I will come home as she encouraged me to do so in faith. She believed that this is not the end. Home includes what she left me which is family. So I'm coming home to you guys.
We had more than a mother, more than a grandmother, we had a friend. We had an image of God. Keep that peace with you and honor that legacy. Like I said, it's an unfinished song and one day we'll sing it all together. Let's just make it up there where she is right now.
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Darnell posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
This past Sunday, while visiting in Washington, DC--as the early morning sunrise scarcely crest the colorful horizon—calling for a bright, crisp, beautiful Fall day- full of possibilities and promise—an otherwise warm and quiet day—suddenly and abruptly becomes shattered--the hotel rooms, phone blares a loud and interrupting alarm--the kind of ring that makes one wonder… a haunting cry screams thru the line--the kind one never forgets…suddenly and silently-- a cloud of tears darken this sun filled day—memories soon drift between the promise and sorrow, leaving one in a chilly shadow of emptiness…
He is on the move…already leading His flock.
Like every other day--He guides them through the gate and out into the fields. But, unlike most days-- this day--the Shepherd will not return home tonight with this particular sheep. She will not rest in her bed tonight, nor graze in the fenced- in pasture of yesterday. No, on this day The Shepherd is taking this sheep to the high country. Today he leads this flock to the highest of mountains...
You see--He truly has no other choice. Springtime grazing has left the "known human pasture"- completely bare, so he must seek new fields.
Now…not all shepherds can make this arduous and treacherous journey. The trek is long. The path is dark & dangerous. Poisonous plants can infect the flock. Wild animals can attack the flock. There are narrow, crocked and rugged trails--filled with slippery slopes…Some lesser shepherds, choose the security of the barren pasture below. Some unbelieving sheep try to hide within them.
But The Good Shepherd doesn't. He knows the path. He has walked this trail many times before. Besides, he is prepared. His staff in hand and rod attached to his belt. With his staff, he will nudge the flock, with his rod he will protect and lead the flock. He will lead them to the mountains on high… and of course—through the dark valleys.
Mother Sutton Tribute by D. Sutton
Suddenly, a calming voice from the past- pierces the panic…
"Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou are with me…The Lord is my Shepherd…He maketh me to lie down…He restoreth my soul…" This is the promise
Are you passing through a valley? If so, you know that this black bag of sorrow is hard to beat. It's hard to bear because, not everyone understands your grief. Oh, they do at first. They certainly will at this homegoing service here in Denver. They most assuredly will at the gravesite in Arlington. But, as time goes on—they simply won't understand that grief -lingers, within the many shattered pieces of our broken heart—but, forgive them, as they won't understand that it really comes with—No notice, no warning! You see, just a whiff of her favorite perfume, or a verse of the song she loved and all of a sudden-- you are saying your painful goodbyes all over again.
You'll wonder, maybe you'll even scream…"why won't sorrow just leave me alone?! It won't, because you're dealing with more than a person—you are dealing with more than memories—you are dealing with-- unlived tomorrows. You're battling heartache, sorrow, disappointment, even anger…
Why Her?
Why Now?
Why Us?
But, The Good Shepherd is near…He's always near---
Dare we think that he would abandon us, in this moment of death? Would the shepherd require his sheep to journey to the highlands alone? Of course not.
Would God require his child to journey to eternity alone? Absolutely not!
He is with her…He is with us!!! For He said, "He will never leave you, nor forsake you…"
Mother Sutton Tribute by D. Sutton
Geneva Mae Sutton "Ole Girl"…Mother, Friend, I like to think of you as my Cinderella . Remember when we danced together at the Kings Ball of Life. We didn't have much, but You sewed together a used boy scout uniform to fit just right-- so that the other boys wouldn't laugh at me—while Dad was away at War-- you attended my little league basketball and football games-- you even somehow managed to find a way to squeeze out a few dollars from an empty jar, for my "yes, that" prom suit—aahh…you remember the one, I just had to have--that really nice wide bell-bottomed peach colored number, complete with the green trim on the wide lapels --You were there at my wedding and embraced my beloved wife, Terri as another daughter…You were there when our children, Christian and Gabrielle were born…You were there at numerous recitals, awards ceremonies and graduations. But you were also there when some of life's disappointments showed up. You always seemed to call at just the right time to wipe away them all away with your compassion and smile. You served these many people in this church well. You always prayed for all of us…boy did you pray!
Finally, you shared with me the wonderful gift of five stunningly beautiful brown skinned, incomparable sisters, whom I admire, cherish and continue to learn from-- Tangie, Eunice, Regina, Pricilla & Crystal…and an older brother, Larry, who seems to have been chiseled out of the rock of Dad's muscle & wisdom, while being showered with your love. Indeed, he even seems to get a little better looking each day, were it not for His thinning hairline ! Yet, he graciously allows me to follow in his footsteps.
You lived to see your Mother, Perlena Baker celebrate her 101st birthday last week…she's still… going strong!
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Round 'Bout Midnight…
The Bell Rang!!!
Mother Sutton Tribute by D. Sutton
"Like A Comet Blazing 'Cross The Evening Sky Gone Too Soon Like The Loss Of Sunlight On a Cloudy Afternoon Gone Too Soon Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight Here One Day Gone One Night Like A Sunset Dying with The Rising Of The Moon Gone Too Soon Gone Too Soon"
SO… Off you go Mother…your chariot awaits… taking you to your most beloved Prince, Seavy Douglas Sutton…He has your glass slipper…Off you go!
Goodnight …Sweet Dreams…We'll see you soon…
With all my love,
Darnell
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Bob DeCant & JoAnne McMahon posted a condolence
Monday, September 23, 2013
Praying for you and your family. It will be a joyous day when you see her again.
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A. Marie Riddick posted a condolence
Saturday, September 21, 2013
Heartfelt condolences to the family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. A. Marie Riddick and Family, Washington, D.C.
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Priscilla posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
Dad's only surviving sibling, Uncle Melcher, said:"Geneva and your dad met at my house when he came home from the service in North Carolina; I believe that was right, but your Aunt Aileen would know better. It hurts when death comes, but everybody's got to do it. I Love her and God bless her. God bless y'all and I love you all. Stay in touch with God cause He know what to do; it'll be alright."
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Priscilla posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
I just got off the phone with my mother-in-law, Elizabeth Dash. She had just come in from dialysis and was getting some coffee. I told her that Mama had raised my brothers and sisters to love one another and to stay together. With a very stern voice she said, "Keep it that way! Your mother taught you right! Tell your sisters and brothers to keep it that way and I'm praying for all of you."
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Priscilla posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
He accompanied me to Mama's house to ask her for my hand in marriage. When we arrived she said, "I know what you came here for." I had already warned him that Mama wasn't easy. Ghais (Shaq) presented a handsome cash dowery and promised Mama that he would take care of me. Staring seriously while pointing her finger at us she said, "Well, ya'll are grown and you're gonna do what you want to do, just don't fornicate." Shaq requested prayer before leaving, and as he prayed, Mama's countenance soften. They engaged in conversation and laughed for a while before departing.
We later visited Arlington National Cemetery where Shaq stood over my dad's grave; with tear filled eyes he thanked daddy for my life. As he saluted dad, he said; "I'll take care of her."
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Michelle Clayton posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
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Keeping you, the Sutton family, in our thoughts and prayers. She's in a better place now, no more suffering. Only joy and peace eternally. Love always, The Clayton Family...Bob, Marsha, Michelle
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Sister in-law Summiya Dash posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
May the Holy Spirit give you comfort while you mourn the loss of your dear Mother. Love you & praying your strength. John 16:22 And ye now therefore have sorrow: but I will see you again, and your heart shall rejoice, and your joy no man taketh from you. Isaiah 25:8 He will swallow up death in victory; and the Lord God will wipe away tears from off all faces; and the rebuke of his people shall he take away from off all the earth: for the Lord hath spoken it.
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michael mccollough posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
I am very sorry for your loss, Mrs. Sutton was such a great person, she will live in my heart and memories forever.
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michael mccollough posted a condolence
Friday, September 20, 2013
I am very sorry for your loss, Mrs. Sutton was such a great person, she will live in my heart and memories forever.
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Frances and Carl Walker posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2013
We did not have the opportunity to know Mrs. Geneva Sutton well, but we are truly blessed to know some of her family. We believe she would want her children to reflect upon this poem by Kimberly Nowfel-Harder as they engage the extremely difficult task of life without her physical presence.
"God does not send
More than we can bear -
Our hearts will mend
If we keep Him there.
After storms it grows calm,
Dark is followed by sun,
We are held in God's palm,
Love and faith make us one.
Although there are days
That bring trials and pain,
Having faith in His ways
We will triumph again.
When we let go of fear
Prayer and love make us strong -
Know that God will be near
To help guide {you} along".
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Jerry & Dorothy Belle posted a condolence
Thursday, September 19, 2013
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times. Jerry & Dorothy Belle Fayetteville, GA
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Ghais Shakir posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Mother Dear and I enjoyed moments of pleasant conversation as she imparted wonderful words of wisdom and inspiration. She'll always have a place in my heart. I thank God for her life.
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Priscilla Sutton-Shakir posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
A man once appeared at mama's front door and said, "You will have seven children." She told me that Crystal and I were acting up and she turned around to address us; but when she peered back at the door, the man was gone. She looked up and down the street; there was no sign of him. She said that she believed that he was an angel.
By the way, Mama did have seven children. In addition, she had seven grand-children and seven great grand-children and a host of others who also called her Mama or MaDea.
